Jennifer Lopez filed for divorce from Ben Affleck on August 20, coinciding with the second anniversary of their extravagant Georgia wedding. Despite the public nature of the filing, neither J.Lo nor Ben have commented on the split. The suddenness of the divorce after just two years of marriage has left many wondering what went wrong. Here’s what sources have revealed so far.
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Growing Tensions Over Work Commitments
One of the key issues that strained J.Lo and Ben’s relationship was their conflicting work schedules. Back in May, an insider shared that trouble had been brewing for a few months, particularly as Jennifer began to ramp up her work commitments, including preparing for her upcoming tour. The source noted that Jennifer was extremely focused on her career, often leaving her and Ben on “two completely different pages.” This growing disconnect in their priorities began to take a toll on their relationship.
Financial and Parenting Disagreements
In addition to their work-related differences, finances and parenting styles further intensified the strain. According to another source, these aspects “exacerbated” the existing issues between the couple. Although details are scarce, it seems that their different approaches to managing finances and parenting responsibilities became significant sources of tension, contributing to the deterioration of their marriage.
Ben’s Honesty: A Double-Edged Sword
Another factor that reportedly caused friction was Ben’s candidness with Jennifer. On May 21, a source told Entertainment Tonight that Ben felt Jennifer had difficulty feeling satisfied, which was a recurring issue in their relationship. While Jennifer appreciated Ben’s honesty, it also became a point of contention. Ben’s willingness to be “honest and real” with Jennifer was something she valued, but it also led to frustration and upset on her part.
The Final Straw: Losing Herself in the Relationship
By July, things had reportedly reached a breaking point. A source close to the couple told the Daily Mail that Jennifer felt Ben was not the person she had “built him up to be.” The relationship had taken such a toll on her that she felt she had lost sight of who she was and what she stood for. This realization appears to have been a significant factor in her decision to file for divorce.
